In our journey through life, we encounter various experiences that shape our understanding and growth. It is essential to recognize the deeper meanings behind these events and to approach them with an open heart.
Whatever unfolds in our lives occurs for a reason, ultimately serving our highest good. Whether it manifests as a learning experience or a blessing, the key is to approach it with grace rather than taking it personally. Sometimes, it seems to us that people dislike us when they say something, but in reality, their words can carry an entirely different meaning. There are always three perspectives to consider when interpreting spoken words or reading a situation: our perspective, the perspective of the person to whom the words or text are directed, and then there is the truth—the true, neutral meaning of what has been expressed.
While we may not fully understand the reasons behind these events, it is essential to welcome them with an open heart and a willingness to learn and grow. Embrace each experience with love, allowing it to enrich your journey, and then release it with a sense of peace.
The real problem arises when we become emotionally engaged in a situation and begin to construct a narrative based on our own truth and energy, while the actual truth may be entirely different. As a result, we start to act according to the distorted scenario we've created in our minds, which can lead us down a completely different path and potentially cause unnecessary conflict. In these moments, we may resort to using harsh words and hurting each other's feelings simply because the other party is unable to see the problem constructively and work towards a solution.
The Author, Antica Zovko

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